1.) I would suggest taking little amounts of coconut oil throughout the day, rather than try to force several spoonfuls at a time. Also, use coconut oil in your cook and you’ll take it in more naturally combined with other nutrients.
3). Personally, my die-off comes more from being aggressive with strong antifungals than with probiotics.
4.) There may very well be a connection between your daughters’ fungal rash and your situation. You might consider bringing up your issues the next time you take your daughter in and see what the doc says. Oral thrush is very common with babies and been around as long as humans have.