You could try using coconut oil as lube, since it’s antifungal, but I agree with Able that it’s probably going to continue to be an issue if you have sex without a condom. You might try polyisoprene condoms instead of latex. I prefer to use them because I have a mild reaction to latex, but the general feedback is that they feel thinner and more sensitive than latex, as well. They’re slightly more expensive, but if the options are no sex or paying for condoms, that doesn’t seem like a particularly difficult choice.
Does this mean my hands are tied?????
Not to be vulgar, but no, and they may be your best option.