It sounds like you’re feeding your candida a lot of fruit sugars, which I suspect is causing a large part of your problem. It also doesn’t seem like you’re taking any antifungals, besides using coconut oil in your cooking. A lot of us on the forum here are following a protocol and diet plan that successfully cured the user who developed it. It’s more restrictive and aggressive than what you’re doing currently, but I can attest that it’s really been helping me, personally (I’ve been on it for 74 days).
Here is the protocol to read through: http://www.thecandidadiet.com/forum/yaf_postst1334_From-Able-and-Raster-The-Protocol.aspx
If you want a copy of the diet list that goes with the protocol, you should send a message to user Able900, explaining your symptoms a bit, and he can send that to you.