Are you listening to how he is feeling, let him have his vent without interupions, When he has finished speaking ask if he is done (nicely). When you understand what his opinion is respond by explaining what you have herd him say, then he might say yes thats what i mean or no not exactly…when you understand his point then tell him how you feel. he wants to be heard as much as you do. and if you give him the respect first then you can have your turn to vent. in the end don’t expect him to believe your thoughts on the situation but he should respect you are trying your best to help your body. its your life and you have the right to choose, as does he. 🙂
ps try bring it up when his not tired or grumpy. it helps a person respond better when thier frame of mind is in a better place.
Good luck hun