Yep, human nature is to only see your side of the fence and even then, not your side of the fence clearly.
A friend was praying for me to be enlightened. Heck I prayed to be enlightened. Didn’t know being enlightened was going to do the opposite of lightening my load……sometimes it’s better to not see either side of the fence!
If it makes you feel any better, someone I LOVE dearly told me they didn’t think candida overgrowth was real but, they believed I thought it was real……