My thoughts exactly Lucy, I see them eating the very things that made me so sick and it really bothers me. I agree, I wouldn’t dare ask them to join me on the diet but to eat healthier is a different story. Just like last night my daughter went to stay with my mother and they come home today with a box of little debbie creme pies. I just can’t stand to watch her eat junk but it seems like I am the only one that is bothered by it. My mother is probably 50 pounds over weight and always talks about how bad she feels and never has any energy. As soon as I mention a diet she changes the subject. Its like others want the benefits without having to do the work and that just doesn’t happen.