I’ve been using my 18 month old daughter’s shampoo. I bought it from Whole Foods and it has different oils and other natural ingredients, it has no phthalates, parabens (it has a long list of chemicals it doesn’t include). Try looking at baby products, WH has a pretty good selection of them. Her lotion is also made mostly of oils, it’s called Weleda Baby Calendula Lotion. Not sure if you’ve tried extra virgin olive oil as a moisturizer.